Anything you can pay more attention to more than God has become your idol.
You can’t put your life in the hands of God and regret it! Stop trusting men for what only God can do. Why put in the hands of men what should be in God’s hands. Don’t focus on man; if a man makes you, man will destroy you.
To walk with God and enjoy God, you must give Him time and patience. God uses “using” you to work on you because He wants to match your character with the destiny He has for you and that’s why He’s more interested in changing you than in changing your circumstances. The God that has brought you this far cannot leave you now.
Your life has been fashioned and planned by God for good. Refuse to be discouraged! Sometimes, some situations that happen to you is a form of instruction if you pay attention.